“you only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.”- Mae West
Everybody wants a perfect ending but most don’t work towards building it, some would sit back and dream all day like i don’t get waiting for a miracle or what? i mean please what’s this world turning to actually, this generation is not even helping matters. there are so many people out there the teenagers and youths especially with potentials and dreams but just too lazy to work it or most times deceived by the things of this world like partying, drinking amongst others pretending and living carelessly with the mentality that all things would be just as planned or imagined.
Making mistakes in life is one of the things that make life what it is but then its a shame on your part if you don’t work towards correcting your mistake or even letting it bring you down, remember mistakes are proves that you are trying its not the final say. Just because you tried changing but them it didn’t work doesn’t mean you should stop trying, Most people fail to realise that life is a gift and each day of ones life should be used wisely; don’t just sit there drinking and regretting the things you have done or fantasising about what you want when you can work for.
i always tell people to “Get a life” and by this i mean have a plan and vision for your life, don’t just be in life also make life, live life and maximise life. This life is what you make it and the truth is a life without a vision, plan and focus is worthless and not appreciated.
I am not a fan of making new year resolutions because i believe that everyday is an opportunity to change why wait for a new year before you make things right; but right now i think i would admonish you all to make the very best of this short period before the new year begins and set things right, make note of the things you want to drop back in this year it might be habits, friends, you know what you want to change and drop to make your life better; Like are you not tired of just being the same old you, doing the same thing over and over again each year, hanging out with the same set of people that are not helping you in any way, drinking or smoking trust me you really have to drop these, you know these things; you don’t have to continue with them like really get a life and by this i mean build one not dream one or regret one, I know these things look very easy to do until you start but then one key is to never give up and be determined.
The good thing about life is that it always give you an opportunity to set things right no matter how old you are or how far you have gone, why don’t you take this opportunity and set things right starting afresh this coming year.
Its so much ok to fantasise and dream but if care is not taken most people would live their lives dreaming for what they would never have not because they couldn’t have it but because they didn’t work for it. Always remember ” it does not do to dwell on dreams and forget to live”- J.K Rowling
GET A LIFE that’s all i have to say….